E'dolha nods like this is the most normal thing in the world. It explains the breakdown, too—you give up your life on one side of a war only to lose your anchor on the other side. She feels as though she'd understand it better in a different life, but it's not hard to piece the emotional maelstrom together from her own experiences.

"So you're drawn to fighting," she offers, grinning and immediately putting her hands up in a defensive position. "Kidding! But you two must have learned some things about each other. Is there something you could do to draw her here? Maybe she's into... swordfighting, or something?"